You are all welcome. This process--of posting here--has been therapeutic for me as well. I wish I could go back and give my old and heartbroken self some encouragement or strength. I cannot. All I can do is keep moving forward now.

I also realize now that if H did not make the changes that HE has made on HIMSELF, I can assure you, that this would not work. You do not want your spouse back with their head in the fog. So while they are giving you the gift of time, they need it too!!!

I am here for all of you!
-Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela