Also, as it relates to GAL:

-Been in the gym nearly everyday, I look as good as I have in ten years.
-Playing in 3 sand volleyball leagues
-Going out with friends more than I have since I was single
-Really focused on work and networking there
-Connection with my kids is stronger than it has ever been

Don't get me wrong, I am not, nor have I initiated a conversation with her via voice or text in a week. I've just made the interactions she's initiated a little less business like. Example, we had to stop over to her house to get something for S15. She made a joke that she would turn the camera on so I wouldn't steal something. I just replied and said, 'sweet, the threat of getting caught always makes it better'. Nothing more than that.


Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16