You would think that would be the best action is to go out and do and show it as an act of love. The problem is when I do these things my W does not see them as an act of love. She sees them as me trying to control the situation and not giving her the room to make her own decisions. the Reason I know is becuase she has told me this before. Waiting 2 weeks will then allow me to say that actions have taken place so I then do it. Then she can't come back at me that I am trying to control her with the C that I am picking. So that is the reasoning behind this.
