Quote: So If my W does not make an appointment in the next 2 weeks I will be taking the bull by the horns.
Why wait 2 weeks? If she IS depressed (and it seems likely), then she will probably NOT make an appointment on her own, and it would be an act of love on your part (not to mention integrity) for you to make it. Waiting 2 whole weeks when you're already pretty sure of what will happen (nothing) doesn't sound very productive. When my crisis came, back in March, and W indicated she would be willing to see a C, I expected action right away, and made sure it happened.