You're doing well. As for trust, just tell her that takes actions and time. Words are meaningless. She doesn't need to waste time with "I promise you can trust me this time..." We all know words mean nothing. Actions and time is what it takes and she has to know there are no more strikes. She has now gotten a second second chance from you which is very gracious of you. She should know that's rare and she should be thankful for it. I wouldn't give my W a second second chance. If she so much as texted another male, even if it was innocent, and deleted the text so I wouldn't see it, that would be it. I'd be gone. I admire and respect your graciousness. I hope your W appreciates it.
