Quote: We went to a C one time about a year and a half ago. They gave us this test and it didn't show depression or anything like that. Again we only went once and I think she was depressed then.
You're probably right, Lee. You know, this is such an important and obvious point, that I think it deserves to be put into a "sticky" message that stays at the top of the forum... it should go without saying that in ANY situation like this, the FIRST thing to verify (after ruling out physical problems) would be whether one or both of the partners are clinically depressed. When someone comes here and starts asking for help, we all tend to jump in with whatever we feel might help, but if the partner is depressed, nothing is likely to do any good until that is addressed...
