It was more about wanting her to smile some when she talks or hears from me. And when I say flirty, I should say more like playful. But I'm not initiating anything, nut adding what she is doing, etc etc.
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16