Thanks Job,
I told him everything needs to be transparent but he said he deleted the messages. I did check this morning and she has texted him about 10 times and he has not responded to her.

I think she is a bit irrational and he is probably turned off. Yeah...its amazing how the green grass on the other side turns brown.

I am still meeting with L tomorrow, just to know my rights and get some questions answered. I am not going to tell H.

Tonight we go to a Broadway show for his bday. If there is any contact between them today, I will be going without him.

Like I said...once I say something, I follow thru.