Lee wrote: She had this look on her face like why should I set that up. But she didn't say anything. Later that night I asked her are you going to set that up. She said maybe. _____________________________________
I agree with others about the sleep thing and its connection with depression. The part that got my attention is the quote above. In my sitch that would be my W's way of protecting herself against anything that the counselor that "I" found said that she didn't like. (We went to several and switched whenever they got to what she needed to change.)
My experience is that if someone sees that something needs to change but won't even find the help they need, they won't make the effort to change themselves. I think you handled it perfectly, dude.
