Interesting stuff RD, glad to hear you and kids are enjoying life. People already asked the question about W so I'll leave it for the most part.

I am happy to see you're in suck a great spot. I'm almost there myself. I don't expect my W to ever say those things but that's fine, not sure I need her to anymore. Sure you feel the same way but maybe in your sitch since something is changing you can explore the thoughts and see where they lead.

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be