Ok Bhuda

So how is ceasing to communicate with your W until she initiates a 180.

If as you say there was a communication failure between you and you made decisions without her then isn't that more of the same?

Can you start small by asking about her day in the way a friend would do. Validate by looking at her and smiling, looking into her eyes.

Wouldn't you say living your own life is same old: same old?

Inclusion is being family orientated.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW