So I pushed things a little tonight, made a couple 'flirty' remarks to her, which seemed well received. I hope I am not setting myself up for failure, but I actually see some light at the end of this tunnel.
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16