SadHub,
I'm glad you have D17. I wish I can borrow her, my S11 is very mature but he is still intimidated by my WW. She has always been somewhat overbearing on him (and me, as others have observed). He's sometimes afraid to express his true feelings with WW, especially about our breakup. I've been told he might be the key to any eventual R, but that is far off in the horizon at this point. Since I only have a son, I wonder how different the dynamics might be with a daughter? Anyway, that question is moot now given my marital circumstances, :-)


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016