It's been a really log time since Iv'e been here. I am still married only because the paperwork hasn't been signed. We are supposed to be.
STBXH is now living with OW, she has moved here with her kids and living with STBXH. I still would do what it takes to have my family back together but it looks like it will never be.
Here is where I would like feedback. My STBXH is finally getting a job we sacrificed for. They do a background check and will interview me. I have the power to make him not be able to get the job. They will ask me if he was ever abusive or drink excessively including drinking and driving. Which he was. Do I just say nothing, or do I tell? I so want to be honest and have him not get the job for spite that we all sacrificed everything for years while he was in school/training? Or let him be happy and move on with his new love? I will not get any benefit of his new job maybe my kids will?
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
