Hi all, H's birthday is approaching and not sure whether I should send him a Happy Birthday email as he did me last month - or not?
I'm trying to do the 180 to give us both a bit of space. Seperated August last year. I am the WAS. We have had a bit of friendly contact over the last few months but nothing for about 3 weeks now. Not sure what will happen in the future but am GAL now.
I don't want to hurt his feelings by not sending him at least an aknowledgement of his birthday but am unsure!
Your thoughts?
I would not send it. I would not worry about hurting his feelings.
It is unlikely that he will even remember a while down the road what you did. So if you are trying to give him space - then DO THAT.
This just sounds like temperature checking and you would be better off letting him do that.
