Sorry it has taken so long to get back to you, I've been on a bit bad run lately.
She is fully aware of what happened - after all, everything ( well there are some things she said she left out) that happened is in the book about abuse survivors that was written by a close friend. I was only ever told bits and pieces but nothing showed any of what really happened.
I agree on the research part. Although she hasn't repressed memories, she spoke of nightmares about it fairly often. Sexually she is so repressed that she is/was unwilling to try different things...that's one of the shocks from her affair that I can't figure out - for 10 years she never would do some of the things in the pictures I saw. The only thing that I can even remotely think about is that she was so "taken in" by him that she would do anything for perceived attention - I swear her behavior (from reading texts, etc) I as almost child- like in attention seeking.
She won't seek the proper help, which really has me worried, especially where the kids are concerned. Thank you for stopping by my thread...I will be posting a new update in a few.
Thank you for your help.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
