Hi all,
H's birthday is approaching and not sure whether I should send him a Happy Birthday email as he did me last month - or not?

I'm trying to do the 180 to give us both a bit of space. Seperated August last year. I am the WAS. We have had a bit of friendly contact over the last few months but nothing for about 3 weeks now. Not sure what will happen in the future but am GAL now.

I don't want to hurt his feelings by not sending him at least an aknowledgement of his birthday but am unsure!

Your thoughts?

Me:54 Him:58
3 Adult children between us.
I am H 2nd wife. My 1st marriage.
Married:8
Together: 12
Separated: 1 Aug 2015
Status: Separated
In NZ we need to be separated 2 years before we can divorce.