Self-absorption seems to be the unifying trait of all the waywards I've read about here, including my own. It's all about them, so your H's attitude seems typical, and typically frustrating.

I really enjoyed both Bridge of Spies and The Judge. Now I need to go see The Big Short, and I also want to see Spotlight.

I've always liked movies, but any with romantic themes are pretty much off limits for me these days. Maybe we should all start compiling a list of 'safe' movies!?!

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16