14 days of sheer hell STILL continues

[DDJ]

My goals.

1 - Detach from my WW. Still having issues, can't stop checking tracking device tho. I am able to distance well, but not detach. I need to focus more on me.
2 - improve myself. Start gym, GAL and be happy with where my life is heading, for me and my son.
3 - start appreciating the small things in life

I think that saying I'm not in love with her anymore is like saying, that I'm moving forward. The past is in the past.
As for the hugging and kissing, is that not her pursuing, or is it cake eating?

I like to think that I'm letting her do her own thing.i don't tell her where to go or what to do anymore. I validate where I can and affirm elsewhere.

Are those TMs not a boundary? I'm having trouble understanding them, I know that they're for me.like the cheating one, what else could be a boundary? So goal 4 is to put in place good boundaries.