Another talk with H. This time about the third copy of the separation agreement which he has given to a random L to keep on file. This L has had nothing to do with anything, except prepared the deed for the transfer of the house.

I told him I was very annoyed that he unilaterally decided what to do with the third copy, and he 'thought it was for him' (BS, he got all three to sign after I signed them) and I told him I was asking my L what to do with the 3rd copy).

I asked him if he had instructed the L to file for D in 6 months, and he said no - but that he might at that time. So I said, that leaves me without any influence, then - you have the third copy so I can't file? Oh, I could get a 'certified copy'. That's not good enough, you need one that's signed in original by both parties. I asked him why my L couldn't have it on file, and he ranted about her prices and how he couldn't afford that. More BS. He doesn't have to pay her.

*sigh*

I notice I get acute, intense backache when I talk to him.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17