Nothing specific, for example, today she said I didn't talk to her enough about what I have for clothes vs what she has for clothes for them. Most of the time it seems like stuff that is pretty trivial I guess.

It feels like we both are maybe using the kids as our 'hook' to keep in touch with the other. I've got to keep working on not doing that.

Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16