Hi Vanilla, Thanks for your input...I will check out the love languages info you mentioned. Yes, I suppose I have been doing some 'mind reading' based on what I know about my H. Working with my therapist a lot this past week on my codependency issues and getting a lot more aware of what I've been doing that doesn't work. Plus listening to Marianne Williamson on days like today when I haven't slept enough and know that really, nothing I think will be helpful! Wednesday this week was the first time I got REALLY f'ing angry for the first time. Not blaming, but stunned and mad at this person who says that having an open heart is one of his purposes in life. Back to feeling compassionate today for the most part. Thanks for your help.
