Will things ever get better

[Cherry]

Sorry you find yourself here. Read up on the homework, it helps to get insight. Does sound a little like my sitch, my h has tuned in and out I've had the ILYBINILWY speech a few times and inbetween that I have had "I obviously do love you". It's a rollercoaster and then some for sure. They will spew spew spew, re write history the lot. I know how painful it is, especially when you hear I don't think I've ever loved you etc. The first time my h snapped out of this I asked him why he said those things he said l he didn't mean them but "they seemed like the right thing to say at the time".

Best advise I can give is to keep a level head- come here and vent to us, but stay steady. It's nice to begin to see the switch of the person looking all upset to the confident person. And when it's you happy and contented, it doesn't half throw and intregue them.

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