Well my take on this is hopefully she will change her mind again. She has changed it back and forth about 100 times in the last couple of months. So really I don't know where her head is. I really think she is depressed. The problem with this is you can't tell a person who is depressed they are depressed becuase they won't believe you.
The other thing is she is looking that pill that fixes everything. Her wieght, her life and so on. It took me a long time to realize that only hard work fixes these things.