Getting out of in house S (9)

[vise82]

Hey Sadhub and OTW,

Thanks for checking in on me. Yes this is a tough time for all of us.

I was into auto racing for three years before I got married. Road track entry level stuff.

Last night W tried to get money out of me. Was trying to get me to pay for things that were paid on a credit card. First of all we agreed to not put things on a credit card, and second she did not even ask me.

She is having money problems and she has not even moved to her new place yet.

It got to the point she was very angry, and threatened me with changing the S agreement. She was pushing my buttons and was spewing because she wasn't getting what she wanted.

I had to leave.

I came back later and said again I was not paying anything on the credit card. She agreed and we worked something out and I paid for my share of the bills.

W took kids this morning to wedding

She emailed me this morning about the dog and having the kids call me to night while they are away.

I replied this after noon. said yes I will take care of the dog and it will be nice to hear from the kids tonight.

I feel nothing today, like its not the end of the MR and not the begining. The completed S agreement was sent to me today. It just makes it all feel final. Seeing her get mad last night was a wake up for me. The disrespect is still there. The resentment is still there.

I am meeting up with a old friend tomorrow. He will bring it all into perspective for me.

He has gone through this also but he left his W after he found out she drained him of every cent. His W wanted to come back but he said no. she wanted to come back after that, he still said no. They are not together. He has a new girlfriend now. They had no kids.

My goal is to pack up the garage. In the meantime I will have to bite my tongue as the neighbor that was the catalyst for this S will I bet, be sending reports to W about what I am doing, going ect.