Sandi's rules.. Most don't apply to me because my sitch prevents them. There is no way she will "see" the changes. Though I do feel an overwhelming desire to want to "explain" to W I never intended to hurt her. But I already have said it, she already read it. In fact I may have taken blame for too much?
Many M's end in D. If I am taking a NC approach, how can anything ever have a chance at R?
I also read in someone else's post about "romance novels"... And heard just a couple weeks ago about they give women unrealistic ideas of what a R should be. My W definitely read many of them! More lately turned to the "chicken soup for the ...." books.
Dettaching.... Not going real well either. I managed to not try to dig for info for a couple days now, new record!
