KML, So true! When I showed him what splitting would look like I end up in the hole.
If he wants to leave he will...I know that. Last night I could tell he is confused and isn't sure what end is up. Better to say nothing about it today, nor tomorrow, nor the next day.
I know (my rational self) that I can't do this for him, nor can anyone help him. My friend's husbands, my sister all want to talk to him but I told them no because it will either make him mad, push him into a corner or whatever.
I made mention last night that one of our friends husbands knew and the first thing out of H mouth was "what did he say?"...I said I am not sure, I didn't ask for details.
We will see how the weekend goes. I did make an L appt for a consultation on Monday. I am not going to tell him, I am just going to get info...it doesn't change the fact that I do not want a D and want my marriage to work out.
