I get along nicely with my MIL, I always have and still do. But she has the perception that I'm depressed and struggling, that it will take a long time (from now) for me to recover. She's always telling me how sad she is about it all, and assumes that I am, too. I was. I'm not anymore. It's tricky, it's her son I got over. But she needs to realize that I'm over him, and I still love her. That's the part that's going to take a while.



"Don't look back, you aren't going that way"