You probably don't have to ask for FIL records, just give FIL a call tomorrow (all depending on your relationship, of course) and say that you wanted to check in to see how he is doing because you were worried, and to let him know that you are thinking about him. The reaction should tell you all you need to know.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
