This is my weekend with the boys anyway based on our nesting plan with the court.
I will be home at my normal time which is 530. W wants me there sooner, I guess I should not care what her reason is.
But aren't you going back to court about custody? This is ammo for you in a custody case... Her leaving the kids with you to take off. If you can then document that there was no family illness, you will have such a strong card on your hands.
Give her all the rope you can when it comes to the kids. It has nothing to do with your R with her.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17