Delighted for you. You handled it well. I'll let someone who has gone through piecing advise you, but I would take my time and make her wait. Again this is not to play with her but to give her the chance to prove with her actions as well as words that she is fully in.

You are in a great place mentally.You can do this.

Keep us in the loop.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together