My cousin is having a wedding next month, 250 km away, so it is a 3 hour car trip.
And my wife does not want to go.
That is ok, I will go, but then - I want to go with child, and she does not allow it since 'it is too stressful' and 'too far'.
Her suggestion is just to meet with him (he lives near) and give him wedding gift, and not to attend the wedding.
She definitely has problem with my relatives - since we are together she has not attended a single funeral (there were 5 - all of my grand-x, and one uncle) Also she has not attended any of my relatives weddings (there were 3) She has attended 1 out of 2 weddings of my friends, this one that she attended I was best man, and she knew them very well.
I have attended all of her friends &relatives funerals & weddings except one funeral that she did not want me to go.
It is easy to detach from my wife, she has her life, and she does not want to go - so what... but I want my child to go with me, and there is no reasoning with my WW.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room
