I live with my MLCer and I notice anytime I take the high road, I see more and more guilt out of him. The times my anger gets hold of me, he feels justified as I only make myself look bad.

Glad it made you feel better. Keep practicing that; good stuff!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced