He looked completely out of his comfort zone. There was one appointment that he did on his own and I bumped into one of out sons friends and his dad and was chatting when h walked past....it was only me that saw h and I could see he was about to say hello to sons friend and dad but then stopped himself....I am sure he felt uncomfortable...good. He lef a good life because he was 'unhappy' pathetic.
But yes, I definitely feel like I came off the better person.