Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
You would be proud, I was calm but distant. I work at the school also and one of the teachers said I looked confident and was smiling .
It was also obvious how little h knows about the day to day of his son. He was asking me!! Google it prat ( I didn't say that but they ugly it)
He constantly had that concerned look on his face...the concerned father ..whatever
I am sure h drove away with food for thought about he little knowledge he has of his sons education...he's made his bed and soon that bed will become as hard as nails.
Me...I took the higher ground and I'm pleased with myself. No I wasn't overly nice to him but I was civil and didn't get annoyed.l.despite me wanting to rip his head off
Nice job Mia! Being calm but distant is GREAT! Work the frustrations out somewhere else.
Keep taking care of you.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
He looked completely out of his comfort zone. There was one appointment that he did on his own and I bumped into one of out sons friends and his dad and was chatting when h walked past....it was only me that saw h and I could see he was about to say hello to sons friend and dad but then stopped himself....I am sure he felt uncomfortable...good. He lef a good life because he was 'unhappy' pathetic.
But yes, I definitely feel like I came off the better person.
I live with my MLCer and I notice anytime I take the high road, I see more and more guilt out of him. The times my anger gets hold of me, he feels justified as I only make myself look bad.
Glad it made you feel better. Keep practicing that; good stuff!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
My youngest son came with me. He kept hugging me when his dad was there. And I just felt h was an absolute twat for putting his kids in this situation. What an idiot, getting involved with his work colleague. Didn't think of his kids just his own self entitled idea of happiness. What about his kids right to being brought up by two parents together
Nice job! I'm proud of you. Taking the high road takes a lot of energy and positive thinking and you did a great job. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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