I'm chatting to a friend who was a WW. I asked her if she ever fell in love with her XH again and she said never. She says that she learnt to manage it. "The thing is, if you are in love with the person that you are with, you don't wander, you have everything that you need. I wandered because i didn't feel that way about him".

She is not giving me much hope of saving my M. But I gotta fight for myself first.


Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.