Tell us how you REALLY feel, Lee. j/k I hear you. My W actually touched my back in the middle of the night. I know it wasn't accidental because she had just gotten back into bed after a trip to the toilet. Wow...not sure when the last time was that she did that, but I felt mixed...nice that she was touching me, pissed that it is so rare, knowing that if I turned around and touched her she would withdraw. It's frustrating, isn't it?