Yup, it stands for Rising Above It - IV

[Sotto]

Hey Rai, re your Q above. I think it takes someone in a mature and reflective state to look back at the R and recognise there were faults on both sides. In all R's we are just flawed, imperfect people trying to rub along together in a partnership.

I think your W is probably protecting herself from the impact of what she has done. And part of that is re-writing history. Also OPs tend to look like 'soulmates' for a while and us with our stinky feet, irritating throat clearing and other little annoyances don't really measure up.

So, it sounds like the scales are still in front of the eyes for her. But we can only really hide from our choices for so long and at some point we come to accept our part in things.

I guess the key is not to wait for any of that stuff though and live your life right now xx