Ok. So a guy at work that knows you're married has been hitting on you for years? First off, if this guy doesn't respect marriage, why would you want to go on a date with him if you were single? Secondly, that's the kind of guy that is in the ear of many of our Ss charming them into leaving their families. Not a winner in my book.
SOOOOOO much of this^^^^. That guy is a piece of $#!&. You deserve a man with character, integrity and values. None of which i can assure you this man has.
