No. I would not start a relationship with a known cheater. Unfortunately, I'm already IN a relationship with a cheater, one I have already invested 25 years with. It's a different choice for me than starting from scratch.
Yes, huge difference there. If you've invested years, decades, in a R and the person suddenly changes, it's difficult to wrap your brain around. You know a person as being a certain way for 95% of the time you have spent together, and suddenly they are a completely different way... Of course you would hope that this is an abherration and they will somehow return to normal.
More Fedex arrived today. The signed separation agreement, a deed to transfer the house to H, a bunch of titles to sign over. Some mail. No note, nothing.
And I'm feeling a little homesick.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
