Good luck, Phoebe! Try to take over the space - put your stuff out and occupy it.

On the bright side... He hasn't taken OW into the house. That would be worse.

I just found out a few days ago that H had OW visit our home over a year ago while I was gone. It made me sick. He has denied that she was ever there all along.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17