Well here is some back ground on my sitch. Im 28 W 27 we have one D she is almost 7. Feb 7 W said that she wanted a D and I found DB on the 9th of FEB and have been DBing ever since. Throughout our entire marriage it has been Sex Starved. When we were dating that was a completely different story. I got what I needed when ever I wanted. So I have been trying to figure it out ever since. When I ran accross DB I also ran across SSM and have been trying to put those princples together ever since.
