I'm having trouble detaching. Trying to be strong, but I can't hold back the tears.
She's just gone out to a restaurant with female friends apparently, not sure who they are, but she never actually dressed up. Her friends changed plans and I asked her "why do you choose such friends", and she said "ask no questions and i'll tell you no lies". I then asked her, "what does that mean", and she responded that "it's for me to figure out".
I just called her and called her out if she was visiting the OM, to which she said that I mustn't add to her woes as her friends already changed their plans.
I can't deal, I try to hand her over to God, but it's sooo difficult. I know I messed up tonight, not sure if i should apologize for asking her? what do you guys think?
I know tomorrow is another day... But i still have to get through today.
Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies... to me it sounds like "don't ask me, so I don't have to lie to you." It doesn't sound like she is trying to earn your trust.
You called and asked if she was seeing OM?? Do you think she would have answered that honestly? Her response doesn't sound very trusting either... She could have said "no," but she didn't.
I'm also confused by the apology. If anything, you should apologize to yourself for focusing on her instead of you.
