Good job Sparkls, you are making the right call on him. If you can get out of testifying, do. You want a clean break and not to add any baggage. I'm envious of your situation and ability to restart your life in a new city. Good luck!
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016