Even better if you're not home at 9pm..... man of mystery!
Go watch a game at a bar, chat up the bartender(man or woman, I'm not implying flirting just conversation)
I highly suggest doing some charity work. It makes you feel good, gives you something to do & helps others!
I found a new hobby (making $$$$) mystery shopping, rewards apps & taking the extreme couponing that I had done for years to an even higher level.
I'm not saying I didn't struggle (oh lord if you read my threads I'm a blabbering emotional fool on a string) but these things did help take my mind off my sitch & lift my spirits.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction