Even better if you're not home at 9pm..... man of mystery!

Go watch a game at a bar, chat up the bartender(man or woman, I'm not implying flirting just conversation)

I highly suggest doing some charity work. It makes you feel good, gives you something to do & helps others!

I found a new hobby (making $$$$) mystery shopping, rewards apps & taking the extreme couponing that I had done for years to an even higher level.

I'm not saying I didn't struggle (oh lord if you read my threads I'm a blabbering emotional fool on a string) but these things did help take my mind off my sitch & lift my spirits.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction