I think there's a difference between forgiving and not staying in the R. We forgive mostly for ourselves, because we don't want to hold on old resentment, but it doesn't mean we have to choose to keep that person in our lives...

In good news: I got the job! Starting in a week or so. smile


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17