Yes, I think that I would have acted the same way.
So if you would have acted in the same way, why are you apologizing? It isnt like you think you did something wrong...
Originally Posted By: DDJ
She created doubt in my mind. I acted upon it. But is that not just "reacting"?
I think we're talking about two different things.
The first is your follow up questions. You wanted to understand where she was going. I understand you are/were doubtful. If she truly was trying to earn your trust, then I dont see too much of an issue with your questions.
But then you followed it up by apologizing to her. Im still not quite sure what you were sorry for. Just defaulting to apologizing isnt really great. If youre sorry you did something and want forgiveness, fine. But just saying "Im sorry" because W is upset over her own choices sounds wimpy.
