I say cancel the vacation as your first step of detachment.
DB is a long endgame. Be aware that there is zero chance of turning this around on a Vacation. Just my humble opinion though.

Me37 W33
T:8 M:5
D3
BD 11/2015
EA+PA w boss 12/2015
S 3/2016

Im stronger because I had to be
Im smarter because of my mistakes
happier because of the sadness Ive known
and now wiser because I learned