My wife complimented me on my attire today. I was surprised as i can't remember the last time she complimented me on anything.
I have been cordial and have been giving her space. Acting "as if" to the best of my ability. I remind myself "Don't ask and don't tell unless asked". This is the way I try not to initiate any conversation. We do have conversations and I am keeping my answers and statements short and to the point. Where I used to ask how her day went, she is now asking me. I answer in a positive tone and then carry on about my business. She seems more interested in what I do now.
We have a long way to go and I have not read too much into her seemingly taking a greater interest in me, it just leaves me with a better feeling on the inside. I am taking one day at a time. My demeanour is upbeat, my workouts are having a positive effect both inside and out.
I have an appointment to get laser treatment to help me become a non smoker. I started again after quitting for ten years. I can't be a better me if I am ruining my health and lungs. To be a better me I must kick this habit for Good and seek another outlet to deal with stress. This is one of my short term goals.
Thanks to everyone for their continued support and guidance.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
