Well my W and I were able to complete the parenting plan rather amicably today. I really hope a lot of this paperwork stuff is done soon, hard to detach and "get space" when there is still a lot of communication.
Anyhow it went well and were able to work out as close to a 50/50 split as possible considering our work schedules. Few touchy topics discussed as part of the agreement such as other people spending the night when our S is present with us. Both of us agreed that should not be permissable and we both stated we are no where near considering dating other people let alone "having sleepovers" but just hearing things like, "it's your life now you can do as you please" those little innocent comments really sting.
I know I have to apply the believe nothing of what they say and half of what they do principle here but as we all know it gets to us at times.
Anyways hopefully we can scale back our contact now for a month or so. Now that this piece of the puzzle is out of the way, next big hurdle is moving into my new apt. 1st of June. Baby steps, I keep telling myself :-)
